Nurturing Learners - Parenting and Homeschool coaching

Welcome to Nurturing Learners

Education consultant, Parenting coach specialising in holistic education and conscious parenting.

Services

1-1 Parenting Coaching

Holistic parenting support - helping you to create a wholesome relationship with yourself and your child.

Helping you to transform your relationships and parenting!

1-1 Homeschool Coaching

Holistic education support - empowering you as a homeschooling parent with guidance, tools and recommendations tailored to your child.

Helping you to transform your homeschool!

Parenting Refresh Programme

8 week online programme to transform your parenting and build wholesome relationships with your children

Workshops

Various workshops Parenting
Education

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You are judging yourself and your child through th

You are judging yourself and your child through the standards you have internalised.

I get it because I did too!

It was costing me the relationship I had with myself and my child.I finally decided to stop ignoring and avoiding the inner work I so desperately needed. I had to turn inward and be present with my inner self. Stay with me.

We are conditioned to escape and avoid our feelings and escape life. But this is exactly what leads us to the behaviours that don't take care of us. It's not what you would want for your child so why do you accept it for yourself?

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You don't need to hold on to those standards any longer my love. They are not yours and they are stopping you from thriving. You can acknowledge them they kept you safe but you can let them go.

You don't need to be fixed because there is absolutely nothing wrong with you my love. You want to be understood and accepted and you deserve to be. This is why raising yourself is so important.

I hope you can take time to hold space for yourself. Make a list of all the things that take care of you and require a few minutes to enjoy. Conciously bring these things into your life my love because they will nurture you. 💜

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If you are struggling with this and need hand held support. I got you. Gentle reminder: I'm now only looking for 5 more Mamas to join us. If you are are committed and ready to awaken and heal then this is for you. Send me a message for details or follow the link in my bio 😊

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My love, Raising your child will call you to par

My love,

Raising your child will call you to parent yourself as well as your child. It will call you to raise yourself. It will call you to be the best version of yourself.

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I get it,

I was constantly triggered just because my child was acting like a child? I realised I was reacting to life and to my child out of the conditioning I recieved as a child. I learnt in order to do better for myself and for my children I had to look deeply into myself and into childhood. So I could finally do the inner work and have compassion and gentleness for the child infront of me and the child within me. I know you feel this way too. Respectfully how is that working for you? I know it has a cost. It costs you your sanity, your relationship with yourself and your child. Can you afford to avoid and ignore any longer? I knew I couldn't.

You're drowning in information. You've read the parenting books. The prescriptive strategies and methods aren't working and you know in the depth of your heart there has to be another way. I get it, you want to start the inner work but just don't know how. Or perhaps like me you avoided it and ignored it.

The coping mechanisms and survival patterns you picked up were keeping you safe. You can let go of them now my love, they are not who you are.

I invite you to awaken, turn inward whilst having compassion for yourself and your feelings.

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I'm now only looking for 5 more Mamas to join us. If you are are committed and ready to awaken and heal then this is for you. Swipe through this post to see 📲 An 8 week programme to raise yourself whilst you raise your child. Send me a message for details or follow the link in my bio 😊

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My love, It starts with us. You will need to le

My love,

It starts with us.
You will need to learn to be for yourself, the parent you want to be for your child.

The truth is in order to take care of the child you are raising, you must take care of the child inside of you. Hold space for your inner child so you can find your way back to a loving relationship with yourself.

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Motherhood can feel extremely triggering for some. Perhaps you are having to grieve aspects of your childhood. If you were never allowed to be a child or your emotions were shut down it can be confusing and scary when your children act like children. I'm here to tell you my love there is absolutely nothing wrong with you. You are not losing it.

Choosing a different path to that which you have been shown is healing work. It takes courage and strength and I see you. I am you.

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Raising yourself expands your ability to love unconditionally because you are giving from a place of wholeness. It releases you from conditioning. It will give you access to be the loving and compassionate presence you want for your child. It will enable you to connect with your child on a deeper level. You can move forward out of love and not fear.

Stay with me. Raising yourself whilst raising your child is not an easy path but it is the path to intergenerational healing. It starts with you and we all must begin this journey to create lasting change for generations to come. It's time you step into your authentic self and prioritise your healing. 🔥

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If this resonates with you and you want to begin. Join us on a 8 week intimate journey of awakening and healing. Raising yourself whilst raising your child. I will hold your hand with compassion and love. Send me a message or check the link in my bio 😊

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Hey love, Your awakening and healing will free y

Hey love,

Your awakening and healing will free your child from a painful legacy.

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It's time for you to honour yourself and prioritise you my love. It's time you returned to your wholeness and your Fitrah. It's time you thrived and flourished without all the cultural and societal conditioning. It's time you awakened from the inside out. It's time isn't it?

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You see everyone is on their own personal path and journey. You will come to understand it was never about you. That hurt and dysfunction was never yours to carry my love. You can release the pain but first you must acknowledge how it's impacted your life, your parenting to move on. It's an act of courage and one which holds so much power.

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You can have control over the unconscious influences, instead of avoiding and pretending they don't exist. Its leaking out into your parenting and the relationship you have with yourself. I get it because I've been there.

This is your invitation. I will hold your hand with love and compassion as you awaken and raise yourself alongside your child. It's journey that has impacted the relationships with my children and myself. The inner work is a game changer.

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It takes one person to change the entire lineage. To refuse to pass down but instead unpack and transform. Is that someone you?

In the depths of your heart if you know this is you and need support visit the link in my bio. This is precisely what I created "Raising yourself programme" for. It's what I so desperately needed and now its here for you my love. 💜

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It takes one person to change the entire lineage m

It takes one person to change the entire lineage my love and that person can be you.

You are reworking yourself on so many levels. You're challenging core beliefs, intentions and assumptions. You're unlearning things that have passed down to you from generations before you. You're healing from things that have caused you pain and suffering in the depth of your heart.

Instead of handing down will you choose to awaken, unpack and transform? If Allah has guided you to it. It will happen for you.

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This is your invite to raise yourself whilst raising your child. Your invite to prioritise your healing and wholeness.

You're healing your lineage. It's heart work and it's hard work.

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"A transitional character is one who, in a single generation, changes the entire course of a lineage. The changes might be for good or ill, but the most noteworthy examples are those individuals who grow up in an abusive, emotionally destructive environment and who somehow find a way to metabolize the poison and refuse to pass it on to their children. They break the mold."

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Is this you?

Join us in an intimate awakening and healing journey. An 8 week programme to raise yourself whilst you raise your child. Awakening and healing through your Parenting. Send me a message for details or follow the link in my bio 😊

#raisingyourself
#raisingyourselfprogramme
#raisingchildren
#raisingparents
#raisingmuslims
#homeschoolmum
#parentingwithlove
#parentalpresence
#parentalanxiety
#healingtheparent
#healingmotherhood
#healingthroughparenting
#motheringyourself
#parenteducator
#parentcoach
#educationconsultant
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My love, In order to take care of the child you a

My love,

In order to take care of the child you are raising, you must take care of the child inside of you. I get it, because you can't put a hold on raising your child whilst you raise yourself right?

Stay with me. What you can do and what I invite you to do is raise yourself whilst raising your child. I learnt I had to take care and have compassion for the child inside of me to have compassion for the child infront of me.

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In many parenting situations you may find yourself being in the same 'emotional age' as your child. Sometimes you'll find there are two children that need to be parented and one of them is you. It's why reparenting and being attuned with your inner child are so important.

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If this resonates with you or you would like to dive in deep further visit the link in my bio for info. Raising yourself programme - 8 week initimate journey of awakening and healing. Raising yourself whilst you raise your child. We begin 3rd March.

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Hey love, The truth is you are modelling what yo

Hey love,

The truth is you are modelling what you learnt as a child. What you experienced as a child became the model for what you expect and express as an adult.

It's true that you are also modeling the adulthood you want for your child and what you hope they will model for their own child.

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Perhaps you've promised yourself you'll parent in the opposite way to that of your own upbringing. It works for a while but you find yourself hurled back into the shouting and screaming.

I'm here to tell you my love there is absolutely nothing wrong with you. You are not losing it. You are unlearning and learning through awakening and reclaiming parts of yourself. You are learning to accept yourself and return to your Fitrah.

It takes time, practice and endless self compassion to attund to your own needs and be with the child within you. To show compassion to the child infront of you, you must give compassion to yourself first.

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In the depths of your heart you want to begin the inner work but you don't know where to start or how? I'm here to hold your hand with love and compassion to support you in raising yourself whilst you raise your child.

You can have control over the unconscious influences, instead of avoiding and pretending they don't exist. Its leaking out into your parenting and the relationship you have with yourself. I get it because I've been there.

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Your healing will free your child from a painful legacy. I invite you to prioritise your needs. I invite you to pass down wholeness for your child and the children of the future.

Join us in an intimate awakening and healing journey. An 8 week programme to raise yourself whilst you raise your child. Send me a message for details or follow the link in my bio 😊

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#raisingyourselfprogramme
#raisingchildren
#raisingparents
#raisingmuslims
#homeschoolmum
#parentingwithlove
#parentalpresence
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#healingmotherhood
#healingthroughparenting
#motheringyourself
#parenteducator
#parentcoach
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Hey love, I know you want to parent from a place

Hey love,

I know you want to parent from a place of wholeness my love. I know your striving hard to heal. I know you want to transform and unpack so you can heal and transform instead of handing down. I get it and I see you!

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So much of parenting focuses on the child. The child's behaviour and actions. It's always considered the child's fault. You've been told you lose your temper and erupt because your child "pushed your buttons" and you better use time-outs/rewards and punishments to reign him or her in. Stay with me what if we shifted and reframed that?

Have you considered the energy you bring to your parent-child interactions. Have you considered your behaviour and internal dialogue? Now this is not about shaming or blaming ourselves. It's about awakening and holding ourselves with compassion my love.

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It became a game changer for me but the truth is many of us as adults feel attacked by being called out and confronted. I know I did! If you shifted the focus away from your child and onto internal transformation what would change for you?

The truth is the way you treat your child is probably how you were treated as a child. You can change this but it takes inner work. You are are not doomed to repeating the same patterns.

The truth is a parents internal process is the most important aspect of parenting which isn't spoken about enough.

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If you are ready to awaken and heal. If you are ready to see your triggers as opportunities. If you are ready to connect with yourself and your child wholeheartedly. I got you!

Are you ready to raise yourself as you raise your child? Are you open to growing alongside your child?

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Join us in an intimate awakening and healing journey. An 8 week programme to raise yourself whilst you raise your child. Send me a message for details or follow the link in my bio 😊

Sending love and compassion as we head into the weekend. Maryam. Xx

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#motheringyourself
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My love, Your child will bring you opportunities

My love,

Your child will bring you opportunities for healing and wholeness.

It's something you experience everyday. Those things that trigger you are specific to you. There is nothing wrong with you.

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Here is what I realised. I realised I was reacting to life and to my child out of the conditioning I recieved as a child. I learnt in order to do better for myself and for my children I had to look deeply into myself, my past and childhood. So I could finally do the inner work and have compassion and gentleness for the child infront of me and the child within me. I know you feel this way too. Respectfully how is that working for you? I know it has a cost. It costs you your sanity, your relationship with yourself and your child. Can you afford to avoid and ignore any longer? I knew I couldn't.

x

The coping mechanisms and survival patterns you picked up were keeping you safe. You can let go of them now my love, they are not who you are.

I invite you to awaken, turn inward whilst having compassion for yourself and your feelings.

x

Join us in Raising yourself whilst raising your child. An 8 week online programme to support you in healing and awakening through Parenting. Follow the link in bio for SIGN UP or send me a message. I will hold your hand with compassion and love to heal and break the cycle. 🔥

#raisingyourselfprogramme
#raisingchildren
#raisingparents
#raisingmuslims
#homeschoolmum
#parentingwithlove
#parentalpresence
#parentalanxiety
#healingtheparent
#healingmotherhood
#healingthroughparenting
#motheringyourself
#motheringhonestly
#parenteducator
#muslimpublicspeaker
#generationalhealing
#breakingthecycle
#changingthenarrative
#parentingcoach
#parenteducator
#educationconsultant
#homeschoolcoach
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#nurturinglearners

8 week online programme to support you in awakenin

8 week online programme to support you in awakening and healing through Parenting. Holding your hand to raise yourself whilst you raise your child.

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This is your invitation my love.

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I invite you to return back to your Fitrah as a parent.

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In invite you to prioritise your own healing.

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I invite you to wholeness

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I invite you to heal your lineage.

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I invite you to raise yourself whilst raising your child.

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The thing is we live in an age where we are bombarded by information. We have access to amazing books, social media posts, YouTube and so much more. We are drowning in information, but do you need more of it? Or do you need to implement what you already know? We look for instant fixes, methods and strategies but what we really seek is..

Transformation. This will only happen through doing the inner work my love. I learnt the hard way after avoiding and ignoring it for so long and I don't want that for you. The truth is raising yourself is the real work of parenting.

It wasn't until I embarked upon the journey did things change for me. Your healing process is organic and has it's own timeline. You will leave the programme transformed with tips, shifts and practical tools to continue to emerge into your awakening. Transforming your pain into power and wholeness.

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We begin 3rd March. there are three payment options. Spaces are extremely limited as this is an intimate journey of healing.

Follow the link in my bio for further info & to SIGN UP. I cannot wait for you to begin 🔥 It's your time. With love and compassion I will hold your hand to heal and awaken. If you have any questions feel free to pop me a message.

Sending love. Maryam. Xx

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#raisingparents
#raisingmuslims
#homeschoolmum
#parentingwithlove
#parentalpresence
#parentalanxiety
#healingtheparent
#healingmotherhood
#healingthroughparenting
#motheringyourself
#motheringhonestly
#parenteducator
#muslimpublicspeaker
#generationalhealing
#breakingthecycle
#changingthenarrative
#parentingcoach
#parenteducator
#educationconsultant
#homeschoolcoach
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